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No Worries, Y’all. But would you like some fries with that?


My dear friend, Leslieann, read my last post and dashed off a concerned email.  I responded with our woes (it’s a big financial blow caused by an outside source) and she sent back her relief.  “That is frustrating.  I’m sorry.  I was afraid someone was sick or something.” 

Reality jolt! 

We do have our health.  None of us are sick.  I would much rather deal with financial ills than physical ones.  I can always find a part-time job to cover the losses.  Somebody has to work the night shift at McDonald’s! 

So:  No one is sick.  No one is hurt.  We’re just figuring out how to proceed.

P.S. I am swearing off ever owning property again, or at least I am swearing off ever leasing a property again once we sell this place.

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Well, it was going to be a happy post…


I was thinking, today, that when we are children, life just happens to us.  We may be presented with some limited choices, but for the most, we are just handed our lives.  We are handed what we will eat, what we will wear, our hairstyles, our language, our decor, our environment, our surroundings entirely.  In the teen years, as we are presented with more choices, we start learning to make life happen for ourselves, and we start dying our hair, wearing crazy shoes, speaking our made-up slanguages, papering our rooms in posters, contributing to the overall atmosphere, and pressing to exert ourselves even further.

If the process works well, then by the time we graduate high school, we have a very good idea of how to go make something happen for ourselves.  We go make college, or jobs, or relationships happen, then we spend about ten years figuring out what we are really like.  Are we the forest and navy striped polos Mom used to make us wear?  Or are we the ragged Anarchy in the UK tshirt we wore out Senior year?  Or are we somewhere in between?  Are we the curls and huge bows Mom thought were so cute, or are we the buzz cut with the chin length bangs?  We learn the balance of extremes.

If things don’t go as nature intended, we end up stunted in areas, and it takes much, much longer to find a balance between dogged loyalty to the choices that were once made for us, or keeping a self-defeating grip on the first choices we made straight out of puberty.  I am an excellent example of both of these defects, and I was in my very late 30s before I started feeling my way into some balance. 

…and after the phone call I just took, my equalibrium is way off. 

It seems like Life has decided the best way for me to get information is by letting me experience the down side of everything first.  AUGH!

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Avoiding Fraud Tip


If you have ever held a joint bank account with someone, and have removed that person from the account, go ahead and just close out the account and open a new one.  Why?  Because you probably had checks with both names on the account, and unless you have a super vigilant teller guarding the vault, your ex could clean you out without much trouble.

Your ex could also be passing off checks with various merchants.  As long as the presenter has ID that matches the name on the check, why would anyone wonder?

Start fresh completely and save yourself the further heartache.

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Thursday in the Rain


I have vacation envy.  All my coworkers are having vacations, and mine isn’t until August.  Ah, well. 

It’s been unseasonably rainy and cool here, and I am loving that.  What I am not loving is the traffic that goes with the rain.  Texans are hardly able to stay on the road in the best of conditions, but you add a little water to the road and it’s like Bambi on ice.  Bryan and I were texting each other roads to avoid last night.  “Don’t go down X.”  “Ok.  Don’t try to go down 5.”  “Where are you?”  “I’m at Y.”  “Get off on T because Y is at a dead stop at Y and V.”  “Ok.”  (And by texting, I mean I was talking into the voice recognition feature on my phone while sitting perfectly still, not punching keys while I was driving.  I’m not a native Texan.)

You know, I feel very fortunate to have a spouse who cares enough to help redirect me in traffic.  I like him a lot, and I think that liking counts for more than just about anything else.  I’m also very fortunate to also have the “anything else” going for him, too.

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Worth Dying For?


As of today, over 1,800 young men and women of our armed forces have been killed in Afghanistan.  Just to keep it real, here is a listing of the latest dead:

–Spc. Gerardo Campos, 23, of Miami, Fla.; died June 2 in Maiwand, Afghanistan, when enemy forces attacked his unit with small arms fire; assigned to the 4th Battalion, 23rd Infantry Regiment, 2nd Stryker Brigade Combat Team, 2nd Infantry Division, Joint Base Lewis-McChord, Wash.

–Staff Sgt. Alexander G. Povilaitis, 47, of Dawsonville, Ga.; died May 31 in Kandahar province, Afghanistan, of wounds sustained when the enemy attacked with an improvised explosive device; assigned to 14th Engineer Battalion, 555th Engineer Brigade, Joint Base Lewis-McChord.

–Lance Cpl. Joshua E. Witsman, 23, of Covington, Ind.; died May 30 while supporting combat operations in Helmand province, Afghanistan; assigned to 2nd Battalion, 5th Marine Regiment, 1st Marine Division, I Marine Expeditionary Force, Camp Pendleton, Calif.

–Petty Officer 2nd Class Sean E. Brazas, of Greensboro, N.C.; died May 30 while conducting combat operations in Panjwa’l, Afghanistan; assigned to Naval Base Kitsap Security Detachment in Bremerton, Wash.

–Cpl. Nicholas H. Olivas, 20, of Fairfield, Ohio; died May 30 in Zharay, Afghanistan, when enemy forces attacked his unit with an improvised explosive device; assigned to the 4th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 4th Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne Division, Fort Bragg, N.C.

–Sgt. Julian C. Chase, 22, of Edgewater, Md.; died May 28 while conducting combat operations in Helmand province, Afghanistan; assigned to 5th Air Naval Gunfire Liaison Company, III Marine Expeditionary Force, Okinawa, Japan.

–Two soldiers died May 28, in Kabul, Afghanistan, of wounds sustained when their helicopter crashed; they were assigned to the 12th Combat Aviation Brigade, Ansbach-Katterbach, Germany; killed were: Capt. John R. Brainard, 26, of Dover-Foxcroft, Maine; and Chief Warrant Officer Five John C. Pratt, 51, of Springfield, Va.

–Spc. Tofiga J. Tautolo, 23, of Wilmington, Calif.; died May 27 in Nangarhar province, Afghanistan, of wounds sustained when his vehicle was attacked with an enemy improvised explosive device; assigned to the 3rd Squadron, 61st Cavalry Regiment, 4th Brigade Combat Team, 4th Infantry Division, Fort Carson, Colo.

–Two soldiers died May 27 in Chak-E Wardak District, Afghanistan, when their unit was attacked by enemy forces; killed were: Spc. Kedith L. Jacobs, 21, of Denver, Colo.; assigned to Headquarters and Headquarters Company, 2nd Battalion, 5th Infantry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 1st Armored Division, Fort Bliss, Texas; and Pfc. Leroy Deronde III, 22, of Jersey City, N.J.; assigned to F Company, 125th Brigade Support Battalion attached to 2nd Battalion, 5th Infantry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 1st Armored Division, Fort Bliss, Texas.

–Lance Cpl. Steven G. Sutton, 24, of Leesburg, Ga.; died May 26 while conducting combat operations in Helmand province, Afghanistan; assigned to 1st Battalion, 8th Marine Regiment, 2nd Marine Division, II Marine Expeditionary Force, Camp Lejeune, N.C.

–Staff Sgt. Roberto Loeza, 28, of El Paso, Texas; died May 25 in Logar province, Afghanistan, when enemy forces attacked his unit with indirect fire; assigned to the 1st Battalion, 41st Infantry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 1st Armored Division, Fort Bliss, Texas.

20 years old.  21 years old.  22 years old.  23 years old.  24 years old.  Shot.  Blown up.  Knocked out of the sky.  Just kids.  Dead.  For what?  For whom?

Remember when kings used to ride out and fight their own battles?  I think it’s high time we return to that way of waging war.  Can you imagine our elected officials being told they had to put on fatigues?

It’s something to keep in mind as the election draws nearer.